One thing that Ryan and I like to do after each trip recently is to reflect back on areas of improvement for the trip. For our cruise, we didn't have a ton, but I wanted to share what we learned cruising with an 8 month old.
Related: Thoughts on cruising with an 8-month old and Review of the cruise we took our 8 month old on
Timing dinner
I mentioned this in my cruise review, but to catch you up to speed we did the "my time" dining on our cruise. The benefit of this is that if your baby isn't hungry at exactly 5:30 or 7:45, you can still enjoy the main dining courses and just head there whenever you want. Unfortunately, we cut it close on our timing just about every night. On our cruise, it seemed that once the doors opened at 5:30, you were seated immediately (so we'd have to rush to quickly get ready to make our reservation), but the wait times quickly were pushed back to about an hour. In hindsight, we should have made this more of a priority to put in a table reservation early in the evening. We also should have just given up and headed for the buffet once the wait got over 30 minutes, because for this trip the line didn't move faster than the wait time shown.
Disposable bibs
All of the online travel packing lists recommended
disposable baby bibs for eating. It makes perfect sense because you're not trying to re-use dirty bibs throughout the trip, and that's less dirty laundry you have to bring home. This didn't work out for us because my daughter was in the arm-flailing stage, so she accidentally discovered how easily these can rip. Once she figured that out, the bibs never stayed on.
Now, I just travel with a standard
wipeable bib and a
wet bag to put dirty bibs in. It's more work, but at least it keeps her clothes clean. For now, I just keep the spare disposable bibs in our baby travel bag as a backup.
Packing the wrong placemats
We brought
disposable place mats to go along with our disposable bibs. And we brought a
suction cup toy holder. Both worked perfectly fine, but in hindsight I wish I would have just brought 1 item that did both. We loved our
mini busy baby mat for our baby because it was somewhere clean we could put her food (that has raised sides to keep juices from dripping off the table and makes it easier for little hands to pick up food) and it has straps that can hold 2 toys (or a
toy and a
drink) onto the table.
We didn't get the mini busy baby mat until after our cruise, but it would have made several meals a lot easier. I still have leftover disposable place mats that I keep in our baby travel bag as a backup.
Not dressing her for the port
In Belize, we had to tender to and from the port to the ship. We dressed our daughter in her swimsuit for the trip over there, but changed her into dry clothes for the trip back. The problem with this was that on the way back, water kept spraying into the boat and her outfit was completely soaked and her legs got cold. If we have another tender port again, I'll make sure to pack an extra swimwear for the trip back so that she's better dressed. The reason I didn't want to just keep her in her swimsuit all day was because sometimes you can develop a rash from wearing a damp swimsuit if it doesn't dry fast enough.
On the flipside, we dressed her in her swimsuit for Cozumel, and then ended up just going to the shops and restaurants only on that stop. Since she didn't get in the water, she didn't need to be in her swimsuit all day and could have been in something breezier. Next time, if I know we won't be going to the water, I'll dress her in her bamboo rompers and then just pack the swimsuit as a just in case.
One lesson we've learned is to dress them in their regular diaper until you get to the beach! Swim diapers don't hold pee, so if they pee in their swim diaper while you're getting off the ship then it will leak right through. But, make sure you remember to them into their swim diaper when you get there, or their regular diaper will fill up with water instantly.
Not planning all excursions out
We only booked an excursion for 1 of our 3 ports, and I regret that. For Belize, it led to me being absolutely paranoid wandering around like a lost tourist, making us obvious targets to rob. For Cozumel, it was just overconfidence in ourselves because we had been to the port previously. Both times we figured that we could just wing it, and to a certain extent we did.
But, standing around with no plan trying to make it up on the spot is much more difficult when you have a baby and a baby schedule to accommodate. Make-it-up-as -you-go is a perfectly good plan, just if you're traveling childless. Next time, we'll make sure we have our day planned at each stop so that we can make the most out of the little time we have at each port.
Underutilizing the baby center
While we did remember that the baby center has scheduled "play dates" for our second sea day, we completely forgot about it for the first sea day. We were really bummed about this, because they did something different each sea day, so we missed out on whatever activities they had going on that first day. It's easy to forget to go by the baby center since you can't drop your kid off, but there's lots of toys and a safe place for them to climb around over there.
Bringing our pack-n-play
Carnival provides metal mini cribs, and I just didn't like that idea, so I brought our big
Graco pack-n-play. This was the 1 item that almost broke my husband as we were taking our luggage from the parking garage across the street to the cruise terminal, and almost broke me when we were trying to set it up in our room. This thing is heavy and not easy to carry around! We also always kept our pack-n-play assembled in our living room, so we weren't super familiar with how to set it up and our internet plan didn't include Google or streaming so I couldn't look up a how-to video to get it set up.
While I don't regret brining our own baby bed onboard, I do regret which brand we brought. After our trip, I got the
Guava Lotus travel crib, and we really like it. While the Graco is 37 pounds, this is only 14 pounds! The straps on the bag are made so that you can wear the bag like a backpack. And the setup seemed much more intuitive on this crib. We got the set that came with the quilted mattress topper, and it is so soft! The side also unzips so your baby can easily go in and out of it to play in.
However, it's actually not my favorite travel crib. My mom got the
Dream on Me travel crib for her house and it's amazing! It's only 10 pounds and it folds up really tiny. All you do is pop the legs into the crib and it's fully assembled, no weird buttons to push and hold and fold. Because my daughter is now over 1, my mom got a
mattress pad insert and it makes this bed very comfortable! The only downside is that the mattress bag is about as big as the travel crib bag, so it's one more bulky thing to carry. The only downside to this travel crib is that your baby will outgrow it much faster than the Guava Lotus, because the lotus is 5 inches longer and 4 inches wider, but the Dream on Me is 1/3 of the price!
And 3 things we did right
We overspent and ordered a
teddy bear to be delivered to our room on the first day, and it was just so darn cute! I'm happy that we now have this little memento of our daughter's first cruise! This photo alone was worth the money.
We took a
baby monitor that didn't require Wi-Fi, and I'm so glad we did! I got an
adjustable arm that comes on a giant clip so I could just clip it onto the door of one of the cabinets and face the camera towards our daughter's bed. We wouldn't leave her in the room alone, but it was nice to sit out on our balcony and be able to see if she was starting to wake up, because it's actually really hard to hear what's going on inside the room when you're on the balcony, so we might not have heard her cry until the whole floor could hear her.
Since the cruise, we've used this on just about every trip we've taken. While we love our
Nanit back home (and the Nanit does come with a
travel kit), I don't trust the security or the streaming quality of Wi-Fi when we travel. It's also nice to have a travel-dedicated baby monitor so we don't have to worry about taking down our everyday monitor and packing it for each trip.

Another balcony-specific thing we did was bring a
mini pool! Kids who are still in swim diapers can't swim in the pool, and since our ship didn't have a splash pad, this was the only way that she got to play in the water on sea days. I brought a
mini air pump and could easily blow this up and deflate it in a minute each time we used it (we also used it on port days if we got back on the ship early in the day). I used an empty trash can filled with warm shower water to quickly fill it, and threw some
cheap foam letters in for my daughter to play with. This was probably her favorite part of the whole ship, and was very easy to bring with us and set up.

Our last great decision we made was our room. Besides the fact that I obviously recommend a balcony room for cruising with a baby, I recommend you look into the room location as well. Our room was only a floor away from the buffet and was near the stairs. This meant that if our daughter was in our room napping, or was not in a mood to be in a public restaurant, Ryan could just run up to the buffet and grab us something to eat and bring it back to the room and we would have a picnic on our balcony. Our room was also near the pool bar (but no so close that it was loud), so we could easily run and grab a little drinky drink when we were on babysitting duty in the room.